this is what i have done since matthias was born:
-worked at paidia's carnival for two nights when matthias was less than a week old....he came with me.
-taken matthias to drs. apointments and blood tests by myself - walked to one, drove to two
-walked hiba to/from daycare while carrying matthias in a baby bjorn - a crazy concept here
-went grocery shopping a couple of times...usually with matthias in his bjorn
-cooked meals and cleaned the house
people here think i'm crazy.
but, my mom will be here in less than a week, so i'll take advantage of that and sleep some and let her cook. :-) too bad she's not staying for 40 days.